Regarding board games, I’m talking about the modern stuff. Some of my favorites are Hive, Patchwork, Bananagrams, Splendor, Agricola: All Creatures Big and Small, Takenoko, Fairy Tale, Forbidden Island, Arboretum, and Ticket to Ride: Europe. For me, games are all about the interaction between us. I will always try to win, of course, but what I love most is the playing, the process, and the opportunity to interact with you.The right Dom for me will be an expert baker of cookies respectful of limits and strong enough to maintain boundaries and rules while still being playful. I’m obedience oriented, and your structure and rules will give me a place and a purpose in your life (and mine). I enjoy being given tasks, and I like it when my Dom takes over some decisions in my daily life and exerts his control.I’m a brat (the fun kind, I swear! ;-) and I’ll bring a lot of joy and entertainment to your daily life. Please bring with you an appreciation for silliness and whimsy. :-) I’ll probably test your patience here and there, but I usually gauge moods pretty well and I’ll know when enough is enough.You should already feel like a whole person who is, overall, happy with your life or actively creating the life you want. You’re emotionally available (i.e., single or in an open relationship -- there will definitely be emotional strings involved here!) and interested in a lasting, long-term, romantic connection. My hope is that my Dom will enjoy spending time with me in many venues (like a hike or the cupcake place or a rope class). I'll need you to be willing to share who you are, what you do, and what you want out of life. I want to know all about you so I can contribute to your life in a positive way (or drive you up the wall -- whatever seems the most fun at the time. ;-)I want us to have a base of shared cookie recipes interests, goals, and new things to try together, both kinky and in the kitchen mundane. My favorite activities include cooking/baking (can't emphasize this enough, really), photography, hiking, and creative writing. I enjoy reading and I love puzzles of all sorts. I've always wanted to try one of those escape room things, and there are three near me! I have a very tiny “garden” in planters and a small greenhouse just outside the front door of my apartment. So far no luck on a giant pumpkin, but there’s always next season, right? :-)I enjoy being physically active (running, hiking, yoga, etc.). I’m HWP and pretty fit. I enjoy discussing running and the outdoors in general, and I’d prefer you share these interests even if you’re far away.I’m an introvert and demisexual, so things with me will likely go a bit slower than you’re used to. I also can’t submit to anyone I don’t know and feel safe with. I need to observe a person for reliability, honesty, and consistency over time. If you play board games with me, we’ll be able to observe each other as we win, lose, and learn new things. :-)I’d expect us both to have more than one cookbook relationship (I’m solo poly), but the eventual 24/7 D/s dynamic elements between us will need be exclusive for me to be happy.Please note that solo poly does not mean no commitment or a FWB situation. I’m looking for romance, love, and all that good stuff -- but I love living alone and will continue to do so.Hard limits of note:Humiliation/degradation.Hitting/spanking/impact play.Choking/breath play.People who don't bake.A few of my favorite things:Wax play.Shibari/rope.Orgasm control.Hive.I'm in the Pacific Northwest. I’d prefer to meet in person at least occasionally (at first that'll only be for board games and pizza), but a dynamic that’s primarily a distance thing is fine.Please be a nonsmoker (I’m allergic to smoke). I’m a vegetarian but you don’t need to be.Write and tell me your favorite board game or cookie recipe and we'll be off to a good start. If you have a Fetlife profile, I’d appreciate a link to that as well. via /r/BDSMpersonals http://ift.tt/2oiG11V
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