Me [30 M] with my wife [30 F] 8 years, so upset and considering divorce

Typing this on my phone so pardon my weird or short or lazy sentences.Years now, our sex life has dwindled. She went off the pill and I couldn't feel much with condoms so we mostly did oral but even that started decreasing.She is constantly buying stuff even though our apartment can't fit it all. She's a borderline hoarder and doesn't seem to find it as much a problem as I do.Lately she's developed a snoring problem. I try to get her to work out with me but it's like leading a horse to water.Constantly interrupts me, snaps angrily sometimes for really no reason.Past six times I've asked for sex she makes up some excuse. Some nights she'll preemptively make an excuse (I'm so tired, my throat hurts, I have a headache, I have a rash). It's been months now and I fear had I not asked her tonight we would never have sex again. I asked her tonight, after many months, she said no, maybe tomorrow. I said no. No response. She's sleeping now. I'm here, angrily typing away.I'm not happy. The problem is we JUST got married too. And if we divorced it would screw a lot of things up. We'd have to move out of our apartment since we can only afford it together. We'd have to split our pets. Her family would be furious especially after all the wedding gifts. I'd have to sell a bunch of stuff and find a new apartment somewhere, probably a studio. It would be a disaster.We're going on a trip tomorrow for the weekend but I am so pissed and upset and feel like telling her in the morning no, I'm not going. I want a divorce. This relationship is going nowhere, you no longer have interest in sex, and you treat me poorly. It's not how I want to live my life, it's not a recipe for a happy marriage.Am I being too rash, or is this marriage unsalvageable? Someone talk sense to me.tl;dr considering divorce, good idea? Bad idea? via /r/sex https://ift.tt/2GZeUkl